Patricia Ham

October 4, 1939 - March 23, 2025

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Lake Ridge Chapel and Memorial Designers

6025 82nd Street

Lubbock, TX 79424

Wednesday 4/2, 3:00 pm

Patricia Lea Ham, age 85, went home to be with Jesus on Sunday, March 23, 2025. She was born on October 4, 1939 in Jones County, Texas to Bill and Pansy Smith.

Pat was a one-of-a-kind woman, who in many ways, always seemed larger than life. She was bold, passionate and left her mark wherever she went. She was a creative at heart and was energized by people, art, travel and all things beautiful. She was also hard-working, driven and business savvy. As a young woman, she graduated from Jessie Lee’s Hair Design Institute and worked for twenty years as a hairstylist at Mademoiselle’s Beauty Shop. Following this, one of her greatest achievements was opening Pat Ham Inc. with her daughter Michaela. She grew to be one of the top producing realtors in Lubbock, Texas for many years. Pat was also quite the sports fan. Whether from her seat in the box or her couch at home, there are two teams she never missed, the Texas Tech Red Raiders or the Kansas City Chiefs. Pat loved to live life to the fullest and poured her heart into countless cherished friendships. She loved her family deeply, and loved to talk about the many special memories they made together over the years. Last but certainly not least, Pat adored her little dog Sophie.

Pat is preceded in death by her parents, Bill and Pansy Smith, as well as her daughter, Sharmai Ham, who went to be with Jesus one year ago. She is survived by her daughter, Michaela Hendley, and her husband, Jeff; her grandchildren, Halston Coleman, and her husband Ryan; Chase Hendley, his wife Brianna, and their children Harper, Ellison and Norah; Kade Calhoun and Kolby Hendley; a niece, Sharon Lee; and nephew, Joe Edwards. Even then, no list could hold all the names of those whose lives she touched during her time on earth.

A viewing will be held Tuesday, April 1, 2025 from 10:00 AM to 5:00 PM. A service to celebrate Pat’s life is scheduled at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, April 2, 2025 at Lake Ridge Chapel and Memorial Designers. There will be a burial and graveside service for family and close friends prior to the Celebration of Life, at Resthaven Memorial Park Cemetery. Her family asks that instead of opting for traditional black, please wear colorful clothes in honor of her vibrant and colorful life. In lieu of flowers, her family also asks that you make a donation to the American Diabetes Association or Breakthrough T1D in honor of her great-granddaughter, Harper.

Patricia Lea Ham, age 85, went home to be with Jesus on Sunday, March 23, 2025. She was born on October 4, 1939 in Jones County, Texas to Bill and Pansy Smith. Pat was a one-of-a-kind woman, who in many ways, always seemed larger than life. She was bold, passionate and left her mark whereverContinue Reading

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Pat was a Beautiful Lady and a Wonderful Realtor! So glad I knew her, and I know she will be greatly missed!

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My wife and I had the great privilege of having Pat assist us with purchasing three homes in Lubbock. She was a consummate Realtor and the genuine article. We will both deeply miss her kindness and sense of humor!

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My sweet friend, Pat, and I served as co-chairs for the Lubbock Symphony Guild and had lots of laughs doing it. Pat sold houses for me and helped me find homes throughout the years. She seemed eternally young, so it's hard to believe she couldn't live forever. She will be remembered always.

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Pat made an indelible mark on my life, like she did with so many others, impacting me personally and professionally in ways words cannot express. Her friendship, quiet influence and her caring attitude toward all are like forever fingerprints on my heart. Always respected colleagues in the real estate business through the 1980’s-1990’s, both of us with our own firms, it was a highlight of my career when she chose to join her iconic “Pat Ham, Inc.” brand with the WestMark Companies in 2004. In our 20+ year “partnership”, we experienced so much together. Her success in real estate and the service she provided to her clients is legendary. Asked about her priorities/keys to success she would share: 1. Dress up and show up. 2. Work hard. 3. Be kind to everyone, always (and she lived it!). 4. Listen, listen, listen. 5. Bring value to everything. Her influence will live on for generations. Rest in peace, Pat—we know we will see you again.

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May Almighty God bless this good woman and welcome her home, and may He grant her family and friends strength and comfort in this time of sorrow.

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