Donald L. Cotten

03/23/1932 –

 06/27/2020

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Obituary

Don Cotten, a local publisher, editor, singer, and founding member of Community Christian Church, died on June 27, 2020, after a long illness. Born March 23, 1932, in Lamesa, Texas, to Jimmy and Ruby Cotten, he was known as “Bub” by family and hometown friends. Don graduated from Lamesa High School in 1950, then completed an undergraduate degree in accounting at Texas Tech. He was stationed in Germany to serve in the Army. Upon returning, he attended graduate school for English literature at both New York University and Texas Tech. He married Virginia Reed Cammack in 1963, and they have three children.

Clear, elegant language was Don’s passion, and he built a career in writing, editing, and publishing for companies such as Boone Publications and, ultimately his own small press, Cotten Publishing. Don was particularly known for his ability to shape and hone rough narratives into polished stories and for his skill in helping inexperienced writers to find their voice.

Along with his ear for language, Don had a gift for music. He sang with the Singing Plainsmen, Lubbock’s Barbershop chorus, for more than 40 years, also serving as an officer for much of that time. He played piano and guitar, as well as singing, and even wrote songs. He combined his gifts to write many of the Singing Plainsmen’s stage shows.

Those who knew Don remember him for his kindness, his thoughtfulness, and his quiet devotion to God. He joined First Christian Church in the early 1960s. Don and Virginia were active volunteers at First Christian for decades before moving to Lubbockview Christian and later helping to establish Community Christian Church. Don’s devotion and commitment helped Community Christian to survive early challenges, setting an example as “a man with a gentle spirit, an incredible mind and a heart for God,” in the words of Pastor Randy Cook.

Don is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Virginia; daughter Elena Westbrook of Fairview and her husband Paul; daughter Mary Randall of Hope Hull, Alabama, and her husband Vince; son James Cotten and his wife Shelley of Waco; grandchildren Tabitha Cotten Jones and her husband Josh, Kendall Westbrook, Jonathan Berkenkamp and Andrew Berkenkamp; great-grandchildren Jaxon Jones and Taylor Jones; and his beloved nieces and nephews Randy Roberts, Keepa Davis, Gayla Mull-DeWitt and Jim Roberts. He was predeceased by his parents, James Livingston and Ruby Gladys Cotten, and his sisters, Wynelle and Jimmie Lee.

A memorial service will be held when conditions allow.

Memorials

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to your favorite local food bank or to the Don and Virginia Cotten Endowed Scholarship Fund at McLennan Community College, care of MCC Foundation, 1400 College Drive, Waco, Texas 76708 or online at mclennan.edu/Foundation.

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7 thoughts on “Donald L. Cotten”

  1. My sympathy and prayers go out to the family of Mr. Cotten, I’ve had the pleasure of knowing his son James and his wife Shelley as well as his granddaughter Tabatha . This chapter will be requiring Faith, time, and Compassion.
    I hope you feel my prayers and “hugs” from across the country! ❤️Susan Gundeck

  2. Dearest Virginia, Nan, Mary & Nathan,

    Randy had contacted Richard Dale, Rex and me of Bub’s untimely death and my heart is so sad. Of course, it has been many years since I’ve seen all of you, but Bub was always the nicest, sweetest cousin to me. Forever will be thankful to him for our grandmother’s unique and most treasured name – “Co-Momma”. I could never imagine calling her anything else. Randy also said he would keep us informed when the memorial service is scheduled.

    May God’s loving arms surround each of you now and in the days ahead.

    Your cousin,
    Nancy Kay Crook Stewart
    Aunt Viola’s daughter

  3. Jeannine Cotten Verinder (distant cousin sends love)

    Dear family,

    I just found out recently that we are kin. Elaina is friend of my son Gene Verinder in their Plano church. My family branched off yours several years back. Don sounded like a wonderful Christian man. I wish I had known him because I like to write too. May God sustain you all in your loss and may we all meet up one day in Heaven.

    Yours in Christ, Jeannine Cotten Verinder

  4. My family and I loved the Cottens. We were good friends at First Christian Church and in private life. I haven’t seen you in years. My sweetheart, Buell also stepped into heaven yesterday morning (July 8, 2020) just after midnight. I am sorry for you loss. I have dear memories of Don, Virginia, Nan, Mary and Nathan. My prayer for you is for comfort and also joy because of his homegoing. Love you all, Anna Foley

  5. Rue lynda Foley

    So sorry for your loss, precious memories of your family and ours. We have the promise of seeing each other in heaven rejoicing! Prayers of comfort, peace and healing always Love y’all

  6. Virginia, Nan, Mary and Nathan
    The first cousins of many Cotten children that I had attending me as a young baby were Bub and Jimmie Lee, probably about age 11 and 14. If I find the picture of them taking care of me, I’ll send a copy. From early childhood, I was always impressed with Ruby’s thoughtful notes to me that displayed her excellent penmanship and when Bub was in from Texas Tech, his intellect on almost any subject ranging from Texas Tech sports to high level literature which, I assure you, went way beyond my pay grade.
    I hope you are focusing on the good times spent with a fantastic individual. Sorry for your loss.
    Rex

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