Alphelia Elaine Kirkland

April 12, 1959 - November 30, 2024

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6025 82nd Street

Lubbock, TX 79424

Sunday 12/8, 3:00 pm

Alphelia Elaine Kirkland, a cherished soul born on April 12, 1959, in the quaint town of Blackville, South Carolina, gracefully departed from this world on November 30, 2024. She was a beloved mother, daughter, sister, and friend, whose vibrant spirit and warmth left an indelible mark on the hearts of many.

A proud graduate of the University of South Carolina, Alphelia earned her bachelor’s degree in English and ventured forth to Dallas, Texas, where she left her imprint on the banking realm, specifically within Bank of America’s mortgage loan division. Her unwavering dedication to her craft was rivaled only by her profound love for her family and her zest for life.

With a heart attuned to the melodies of existence, she reveled in music and dance, often finding joy in people and films that sparked laughter and reflection among those she adored. A year and a half prior to her passing, she made the heartfelt decision to relocate to Lubbock from South Carolina, embracing the warmth of her treasured children.

Alphelia’s legacy lives on through her devoted daughter, Ariel Northern, and her husband Zach; her son, AJ Kirkland; her mother, Edith Odom; her brother, Emmit Odom, Jr. and his wife, Valerie; her sister, Kim Smith and her husband, Gerald; and her brother, Derrick Odom and his wife, Diana, and a host of nieces and nephews. Each of them carries a fragment of her radiant spirit and the profound influence she imparted upon their lives.

She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Augustus Kirkland, and her father, Emmit Odom.

In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to American Cancer Society at https://donate.cancer.org in memory of Alphelia.

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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

My condolences to the family. May God Cover all of you. I know it hard. Keep trusting in the Lord. Much love

My sincere condolences to the family.

Words cannot exress what you all may be feeling at this time. Cookie as we called her had a beautiful soul, very compassionate, and she respected everyone. Hearing her passing was difficult. We will keep you all in our prayers. With deepest sympathy, Willie & Patricia Thomas

My one and only sister you will forever be in my heart. There will never be a day that I won’t think about you and all the great times we’ve shared. I always counted on you to bring a room to life and you never failed to do just that. Go on Cookie and take your rest…. We all loved you but God loved you best.

We are so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family and friends.

Sending love and prayers of comfort and healing to you during this difficult time. God continues to be with us during moments of hurt, pain, trials, and tribulations. Cookie will truly be missed. I love you all. - Marlene

Cookie you will be missed so much. Sitting here with tear rolling down my face. I enjoyed the time we spent together. Love you sweetie 😘 💗 gone but never will be forgotten ❤️

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

You where definitely a positive influence on my life. I learned that it is never to late to go after what you love. Thank you for always being that positive voice in my head. My wife adores you! My girls love you and you will always be remembered. I love you Auntie!

Love you cuz ❤️ you will be missed.

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My condolences to the family

Will miss you cuz lol

“May God continue to be with you today and through the coming days as you adjust to the absence of this flower from His Garden.” 🙏🏾

Cookie was my first crush. I was in 6th grade and she would come from the high school selling spirit ribbons. I remember it like yesterday. God bless all of you. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.

With deepest sympathy. May God continue to comfort the family.

Prayers and condolences for the family with much love 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

Love to you all🩷

My beautiful cousin Cookie, My mom (Aunt Juanita "Sista") always made sure I knew your name. Although we only met a few times, those times were filled with love. May you rest in enteral peace. Love Dawn & family

My condolences to the family

Sending lots of love

Cookie and her family have been a part of my life for all of my life. They are family to me. We grew up together. Cookie was beautiful. . . Inside and out. . . Her memory and loving spirit will be a permanent imprint on the hearts and minds of all who knew her. Rest in peace Beautiful Queen. . .your job is now complete on earth.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Rest in Peace my dear Cousin 🙏🏾🙏🏾

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I am so sorry about the loss of Alphelia. We were classmates from elementary to high school graduation. She was a loving, kind and caring person. My sincerest condolences to your family. I pray that God will give you strength and comfort during this difficult time and in the days ahead.

Rest on sweet cousin…

Those who live in our heart are never truly gone. Alphelia( Cookie) as we knew and loved her will be missed. Praying for your peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Sorry for your lost my heart goes out to the family

My family and I extend our deepest heartfelt condolences. Cookie was a sweetheart. Cherish the wonderful memories. Sending you all prayers of comfort in the days to come🫶🏽🫶🏽

I was sadden to hear the news of Aphelia's passing. I want to give my deepest sympathy and condolences to Kirkland and Odom families. I will always cherish the memories as kids in school. When I heard that she moved back to Blackville, I made it a priority to stopped by to visit her. Many years had passed since I seen her, but her smile was the same. I am very grateful that I had the opportunity to visit her and sit down and talk to her about old times, some she could not remember from our childhood,Elementary School, and life experiences. I pray that the Lord will strengthen and comfort both the Odom and Kirkland families in the difficult weeks and months to come. I pray Gods continue peace be upon you as we cherish the memories of Aphelia. Sincerely Tommy

I am a classmate of Alphelia (Cookie) and remember her to be kind,warm,and sweet. We went through elementary school and high school .We were in the high school band together. I saw her at our homecoming tailgating about 2 year ago.Her warm spirit will be sorely missed in the world.My prayers goes out to her family in their time of sorrow. May God bless and keep them as they go forth in their grieving and healing.Sent with love and remembrance of your loved one.💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏

Heaven has gained another Angel; we are so sorry for your loss. We love you so much Aj and Ariel.

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My condolences to the family,

I’m so sorry for the loss of your love one. Alphelia was such a kind and humble person. We grew up in the same church together. Alphelia will truly be missed. My prayers will be with the family as they say goodbye.

To a beautiful soul Cookie is the name I would call her. She was an awesome person and her sweet smile and and joy will be missed in the physical but will be eternal in the spiritual. Mrs. Edith, Kim, Jr. and Derrick, may you the family receive our prayers and condolences during this time. Love always, BJ & Freeman Davenport

So honored and blessed to have been able to get to know and share special moments with momma Alphelia. She gave the best hugs and brought us smiles and laughter with throwing her hands in the air and showing us all the dance moves. Loved the conversation we had around the kitchen island. Thank you for share her with us. She will be missed But Neva eva forgotten.

Sorry 4 your loss. Sending 1 u 4 the family. RIP My Sister ❤️❤️❤️

From the class of 1977 Blackville High School you all have our deepest sympathy 🙏 an condolences 🙏 Cookie was an amazing person she had a beautiful smile every time you would see her God be with you all at this difficult time ::class president Runell Thomas praying for healing and strength 🙏 🙏

Kim, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of bereavement. My God comfort and keep your family in the days ahead Joshua

Sorry for your loss. My prayers and condolences.

You may be gone, but your love, laughter, and spirit remain with me always. We miss you deeply and will carry your memory in our hearts forever!

Peace Lily was purchased for the family of Alphelia Kirkland by Derrick, Diane, Dajuan, Desiree, and Danielle Odom. Send Flowers

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